Monday, May 4, 2020

First Day of School // 2020

Happy First Day of School!

Yes, I realize it's May 4th. And no, I'm not crazy. πŸ˜‰

See, we finished our 180th day of our 2019-2020 school year last Wednesday.

We took Thursday off for E's 7th birthday.

We took Friday off for our summer break. HAHAHAHAHA! πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

And we started our 2020-2021 school year today (Monday)!

I had already scheduled our current school year to end the last week of April. Then we were going to take the month of May off to enjoy all.the.summer.fun while the public schools were still in session, and start back with our new school year the first week of June. This is what we did last year, and it worked well for us! It allowed us to have lots of downtime and flexibility in our year.

But then COVID-19 happened.

Plans changed.

I didn't see any reason to finish up our school year and take the month of May off only to sit around the house and stare at each other, as we've been doing so very well for the past two months during quarantine.

So we all decided it just made more sense to roll right into our 2020-2021 school year this week... after a 5-day weekend/summer break - LOL!

The good thing is we're pretty much just continuing with all of our current subjects through the summer, so I haven't been in a major rush to nail down our "official" curricula for the new year. We had planned to join an Upstate area co-op this fall, but those plans are currently way up in the air as our family's health and safety may mean we buckle down for another year together at home on our own, especially with a new baby due in 7 weeks! I'm TOTALLY on board with that game plan, but will continue to seek the Lord's direction in this decision. Until then, let's move forward with our new school year!

Check out these beautiful kiddos! They are my 3/5 of my heart! πŸ’–


My sweet LO is in 8th grade. EIGHTH GRADE, y'all! I'm so proud of her and can't wait to see the growth she has this year!


We are shifting gears BIG TIME as she will be taking several honors courses this year for high school credits. It will be a whole new world for her as the requirements and obligations for her academically will increase dramatically this year. I'm confident she's up for the challenge, though!


Then there's this guy. My 5th grader! Chase could not BE more ready for his final year of elementary studies! I'll digest the fact that he'll be starting middle school next year MUCH later.


Chase had a great year in 4th, and I have big expectations for his 5th grade year! He's super strong in Math and his English skills have grown so much this year. His cursive handwriting is lightyears above his print handwriting (I tell him this all the time - LOL!). He LOVES drawing and writing/illustrating comics. He still has aspirations to be a professional gamer when he grows up.


Look at this cute face! E's in 2nd grade and I'm so excited for him!


I mean, really, I just love this cutie-pie! He's grown SO MUCH over the past year, and I know he's going to continue to thrive in 2nd grade! He is a reading machine, has THE MOST impressive handwriting, his math skills are off-the-chart, and he is always wanting to do his very best work. It's such a joy to watch him learn!


Oh - let's not forget the (current) youngest and soon-to-be big brother, Squish, who will be turning THREE in less than 40 days! I just love these crazies and the incredible family God's blessed me with!


And they're not weird at all.


Okay, 2020-2021 school year... Let's Do This! πŸ’™

The One with the Custom DIY Bookshelves: Part 1

We have this room upstairs. The floor plan classifies it as a loft; however, we have yet to formally utilize this room as for any purpose whatsoever in the 8+ years we've lived in our home. It eventually turned into a play area of sorts, if "play area" is defined as a dumping ground for all of our kids' stuff!

I eventually realized that BOOKS are one of the biggest culprits of clutter in our home, so I decided to add bookshelves for storage, thinking somehow this would magically clean up the space and make it functional.

Unfortunately, that was NOT the case.

For starters, I purchased cheap $30 bookshelves. They look cheaper than they cost. And the shelves didn't do such a great job at holding books--the ONE thing they were designed to do!--and eventually started sagging in the middle.

I also added two cube storage units, one of which I had the hubs hang on the wall, and it created a sort of "entertainment center" with all the books, toys, and the TV.

But y'all. It was a breeding ground for JANKY CLUTTER. And it drove. me. crazy.

About a month ago, I called a family meeting in this cluttered space and put everyone to work! We took EVERYTHING off the shelves, sorted through the books (lots to donate, and several that were falling apart we needed to toss), put all the game consoles away (we've had a glorious lockdown of zero electronics for the past several months--I highly recommend it!), threw out trash, organized DVDs, and basically anything and everything necessary to finally organize this space once and for all!

Don't just take my word for it, though. I've got PICTURES! Check out this "Before" photo of these messy bookshelves I speak of:


Awful, right? Told ya so!

It was SO bad. But wait! There's an "After" pic, too! Check it out:


That's better, isn't it?

Ugh. Not really.

It just still didn't look right.

Here's the deal. We're starting our 7th year of homeschooling. As such, we have a TON of books that need a home. And we will continually be adding more books to our collection. And they won't be going anywhere for the next 18+ years. So I decided I wanted a more permanent space to store our books.

Side note: We also needed a storage solution for the kids' games. They were stored behind the door in our laundry room. Not the most useful space/location, and also in need of an overhaul (exciting blog post coming soon!). Pardon my embarrassment at sharing the following image:


See what I mean? Lots of stuff in lots of places that all needed a permanent, organized home!

I scoured the interwebs and found exactly what I wanted to do with the loft space. Check out that link from Jeni at Roots & Wings Furniture! We needed a built-in bookshelf for the books, with cabinets for the games (and other stuff that needed hidden storage)! And this DIY link had the perfect step-by-step instructions to give me the confidence that hubs and I could knock this out ourselves. This would be the perfect, permanent solution! It would also help define this space upstairs (more on that later).

Now the fun begins!

We moved ALL of the books and games into our master bedroom, which basically emptied the entire wall. We removed the bookshelves and cube storage units.

Now, we had previously painted the entire downstairs Repose Gray by Sherwin-Williams. I LOVE this gray!


We always planned to paint the upstairs as well... it just hadn't happened yet.

Well, it was time! We knocked out the entire upstairs, which really was just a hallway and the loft. It went pretty quickly, and I LOVED how nice it looked with clean, freshly-painted walls. Here's a little mid-progress peek:


Once the walls were painted, it was time to start planning our new built-in bookshelves. We had 120" of space to work with. We had originally planned to do one cabinet in the center with shelves above it, and full shelves on either side. I really wanted the bookshelf storage. But because of the width of our space and the width of the cabinets and 100 other reasons, we ultimately decided to do cabinets along the entire width of the wall. Here is a mock-up of our design:


Jeni recommended Lowe's cabinets over Home Depot's, so I put together the world's hugest Lowe's order and set it up for truck delivery. On Saturday, April 25th, the Lowe's truck arrived and the nicest fella unloaded our goodies!


And we had a LOT of goodies! LOL!


Meanwhile, the loft was all kinds of ready for this exciting endeavor! Don't the painted walls look so pretty?


Up first? I wanted to prep and paint my cabinets. We purchased four 30" wall cabinets and I wanted to get them painted before installation. This worked out well considering I had hubs working hard on installing a pocket door in the laundry room (more on that later!). While he finished up that project, I was prepping for this one. I used Valspar 2000 semi-gloss high hide white interior paint. It worked like a charm! I made sure to add Flood Floetrol paint conditioner to help ensure the paint settled nicely without any brush or roller marks. And it did! :)


I wanted these to look NICE, so I sanded them with 120 grit sandpaper, cleaned them, painted them, sanded them with 180, cleaned them, painted them, sanded them with 220, and cleaned them. It was a lengthy process, but worth it in the end because they turned out lovely!

Here's a mid-progress pic after just one coat of paint:


I followed the same process with the doors. It was a lengthy process over several days. Eight cabinet doors times three coats of paint and three sandings and three cleanings... and that was just for the inside of the doors! I then repeated the same process with the outside. And let's all remember the fact that all of this is taking place while 31 weeks pregnant!

Here are a few pics of the progress with the doors over several days:




Look at that beautiful, semi-glossy sheen! I'm in LOVE!


I spent some time researching whether or not to put a top coat on the cabinets. Everything I read indicated that using polyurethane over bright white paint would cause the finish to yellow. I did NOT want that to happen! But in a house with 5 young kids, I was worried about the finish holding up over the years ahead. I spoke to a friend of mine with connections to a cabinetmaker, and she confirmed for me that as long as there is a smooth finish, the wood is protected. Honestly, I'm pretty confident it will hold up just fine! So no topcoat here!

Hubs finally got a break in his laundry room project, and was ready to join me in working on the bookshelves. YAY!

For starters, he removed the baseboard on the walls, and cut out the carpet and padding:



Next, he framed the base of the structure with 2x4s. This is because we chose wall cabinets, as they are only 12" deep, but they don't have a kick plate/base. We wanted to raise them off the floor, and also wanted to have room to put the baseboard back in front of the cabinets when we were done.


Next, hubs installed the cabinets by screwing them into the studs in the back wall and also into the next cabinet. He was super creative with this step, and managed to put the screws in places that would eventually be covered by other parts of the built-ins. He REALLY doesn't want anyone seeing any screws or nails, which will add to the overall beauty of the finished product!

Don't they look great all officially installed?


I should mention that we have an outlet on this wall, so hubs cut out the back panel of the third cabinet (seen in the photo above) to allow access to the outlet. Not sure if/when/how we'll need it, but it's there if we ever do.

Next up, it was time to prep the 1x12 and 1x2 that would be placed on top of the cabinets. I had some of the cutest helpers around with this step! (Note: These pics were taken before hubs installed the cabinets, which is why there isn't a cut-out for the outlet.)



Now it was time to install the shelf on the cabinets!

Again, hubs positioned the nails in places that will be hidden. Yay! We placed a 1x2 against the wall, and put a 1x12 next to it. This made a nice little lip to overhang the cabinets.




Next up? Time to put those beautiful doors in place! I added these simple cabinet door pulls and absolutely love them!


I’ll let hubs do all the tiny tweaks to ensure the individual cabinet doors are at the right height and have the right distance between them, but overall I think they look great!!

Since this post is already 12,000,000 words long, I’ll end this for now and write another one for the next step: adding the bookshelves! I love how well it’s coming together!

Thursday, April 30, 2020

E's 7th Birthday!

My sweet boy turned 7 today! It was a pretty epic day, quarantine notwithstanding. πŸ˜‰ It was a fun Ninja-themed day filled with food, fun, and family! From breakfast pancakes and Ninja swords, to Papa John's pizza and drones! He planned the entire day, and we had so much fun!

It was a little different opening gifts, but we FaceTimed with each of the sweet family members who sent our birthday boy a gift so they could watch his excitement as he opened it! He loved the attention, and I think we all enjoyed getting to see faces that live outside our four walls! Mona and Aunt Jo even stopped by (to deliver a certain 12yo addict more yarn from Hobby Lobby) and it was so lovely to talk to them through the front window! πŸ’™

Here are a few pics from our day!














Tuesday, April 7, 2020

COVID-19 + Math = Perspective

Y'all should be worried. This self-proclaimed "word girl" is doing "math numbers" for a minute. See what the coronapocalypse has done to me? Be very afraid.

Check out this website: http://covid19.healthdata.org/united-states-of-america. This site shows the COVID-19 death projections by August 4, 2020, assuming full social distancing through May 2020, for the United States. Another almost 8 weeks of social distancing? Yes, y'all, we can do that.
So this website estimates 81,766 deaths caused by COVID-19 in the United States. According to worldometers.info (however reliable that site is, though it is likely a very close estimation), the population of the United States is currently estimated at 330,552,344. Let's see how this looks when you make it all math-y:

81,766/330,552,344 = 0.000247

And if I'm able to go one step further, and put my mad 4th grade math skills to work by converting my answer from a decimal to a percentage, the result is 0.0247%. That's significantly less than 1/4 of 1%.

So if my math is correct, it tells me that significantly less than approximately 1/4 of 1% of Americans are projected to die from COVID-19.

While EVERY death is a HUGE and UNIMAGINABLE loss of someone's parent, child, grandparent, friend, neighbor, or co-worker, that number gives this entire pandemic a little bit of perspective to me.

Based on the media hype, it feels like we've been thrown into the midst of a pandemic close or equal to the most devastating pandemic ever recorded: The Spanish Flu of 1918.

Wikipedia estimates over 675,000 deaths in the United States from The Spanish Flu.

We're talking significantly less than 1/4 of 1% of Americans. We can probably agree that while the loss of 81,766 lives is incredibly devastating, it's not the same as losing 675,000+.

Even if we look at the highest point in the shaded area of uncertainty in the graph provided, we're still looking at a very small number:

136,401/330,552,344 = 0.000412

That's 0.00412%.

Y'all, I KNOW this pandemic is BAD. I know there are hotspots all over our country that are experiencing death and devastation the likes of which have never been seen before in our lifetimes.

But significantly less than 1/4 of 1%?

I guess what I'm saying is that I'm tired of living in a world overshadowed by fear, worry, and concern. Especially considering I will be 28 weeks pregnant tomorrow, and I have to take on the added anxiety that comes with bringing a new life into this world at such a chaotic time as this. But it was so nice for my non-math self to experience a tiny breath of fresh air from realizing we're talking about significantly less than 1/4 of 1% of our country's population succumbing to COVID-19.

Let's take a quick peek at the math for my home state of South Carolina, shall we?

See http://covid19.healthdata.org/united-states-of-america/south-carolina.

The site estimates 442 South Carolinians will die from COVID-19.
There are an estimated 5,210,095 people currently residing in South Carolina.

That math?

442/5,210,095 = 0.000084

That is a whopping 0.0084%.

And the worst-case scenario projections?

645/5,210,095 = 0.000123

That's 0.0123%.

I can barely even comprehend numbers this small.

You guys.

I'm not saying that COVID-19 isn't bad.

I'm not saying that the loss of lives is inconsequential.

I'm not saying there won't be a "second wave" or more that will result in a greater loss.

I'm not saying these projections are fact or reality or 100% to be expected.

I'm not saying the difficulties we all are experiencing right now should be shrugged off.

I'm saying we can be encouraged.

I'm saying we can get through this.

I'm saying we can try to look for the good in the midst of so.much.bad.

I'm saying we can get through this by the grace of God! He knows the numbers. He knows His plans. He knows when our lives will return to some semblance of normal.

We can hang in there.

We can follow the directives to keep our families safe... our neighbors safe... our communities safe... and our country safe.

I hope this has been somewhat encouraging to you!

I also want to take a moment to say that I simply do not have the words to adequately express my gratitude to the individuals across our country and across the globe working hard on the front lines -- putting their own lives at risk -- in fighting this undetectable, invisible enemy and saving countless lives. There truly are no words to properly express how much you mean to us all, and how grateful we all are for the work you are doing. God bless you and keep you safe!